MarryMyKinksRequest invite

Verified · Discreet · Marriage-minded

A partner whose life
and desires both fit yours.

A private club for grown adults building marriages that hold the whole of who they are — including lavender marriages and other arrangements of trust. Introductions arrive by invitation.

Request an invite

18+ · 21+ where required

Join the waitlist.

An email — a phone number if you'd rather be reached by SMS. Invites roll out in small waves starting 1 October, the day the app goes live.

For a discreet SMS invite. Country code welcome, e.g. +44 7700 900000.

Optional. Never required. Used only to tune your first invite.

We hold only your email. Delete anytime by replying unsubscribe.

How it works

Three steps. In that order.

01

Verify

A quiet yes/no check on age and identity. Documents are never stored.

02

Match on life and dynamic

Compatibility begins with values, plans, and pace — then the private layer.

03

Reveal on mutual consent

Photos and preferences unseal only when both of you say yes.

  • Age & ID verified
  • Documents never stored
  • Consent-first by design
  • LGBTQ+ by construction

Questions

The ones people actually ask.

When will I receive my invite?
The app goes live on 1 October. Invites roll out in small waves starting that day, so most waitlist members will hear from us within the first two weeks.
Will anything on my card statement or inbox reveal what this is?
No. Billing descriptors and email subjects are deliberately neutral. Nothing we send names the nature of the service.
What does verification actually involve?
A brief identity and age check via a third party. We receive a yes/no result. We do not store your document, its number, or the image.
Can anyone see my photos or preferences without my permission?
Never. Photos remain sealed and preferences remain private until you and a match both explicitly agree to reveal them.
Are my preferences ever exposed publicly?
No. There is no public profile, no browsing, no searchable directory. Introductions are one-to-one and consent-gated.
Can I delete my data?
Yes — instantly, and it's easy. Reply 'delete' to any email or use the in-app control. Your record is removed, not archived.
Who is this for?
Adults who take both marriage and their inner life seriously — of any orientation, gender, or relationship structure that intends commitment, including lavender marriages.

Change your mind

Remove your email from the waitlist.

Enter the email you signed up with. We'll send a one-time link to confirm — nothing is deleted until you click it.